How have you been? I have been caught up with a lot of work and it seems like it will never end, but that’s what you get when you live in a society that has a system that is designed to keep you as busy as a bee. Anyway, between the last time I posted and now, so many things have happened and trust me I learnt a lot of lessons from these events and I can tell you that I am way better than what I used to be.
One of the events was that I clocked the big 30. Yes I am 30 years old and I’m grateful to God for the opportunity to celebrate it with my friends and loved ones. Now when you celebrate a major birthday, most times, you will like to take stock of your life like reminiscing about your college days, work, past relationships, moments spent with loved ones and most importantly you have a mental notepad where you begin to cross out sour friendships, check positive ones and set new goals for the future. Some of these goals could be results of comparing your life with a friend or colleague who just clocked 30.
For some unknown and unfair reason, it seems everything is going on well with her, she has really nice and shiny hair, got promoted twice in a year while you have been in the same position for the past 3 years, her boyfriend is rich and takes her on trips to exotic places that you dream about- how did you know? You follow her on Instagram. She had 500,000 followers in 2 years and in 5 years you are struggling with 300. To make everything more annoying, she is getting married and has asked to you to be one of her bridesmaid.
Well I have good news for you, I am going to tell you what to do to turn the situation around.
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