Being single is one of the most beautiful things in the world. Most times, people believe that it is a horrible thing to be single, and that you are incomplete without a man in your life or you need to be under the rule and control of a man who should either be your boy friend or lover. However, all those stories are shenanigans that are designed to bring you down and lower your self esteem. As I said at the beginning of this post, being a single lady is beautiful and comes with many benefits. Some of these benefits are
a) Self- Discovery: Yes self-discovery is one major task you owe yourself in this world. The job of knowing who you are, what you love and want and your purpose. There is nothing as fulfilling as discovering who you are. A lot of times having one guy after the other in your life drowns out your inner girl or lady because you are always measuring up to the guy’s standard or you are trying to please him as much as you can so you drown the real you and build your self to please others. But the periods when you are unattached, give you the time to think and figure who you are, what you love, what you really want to be and most importantly find deeper meanings to life and friendship. During this time, you are emotionally, mentally and spiritually aligned and you can absorb the beauty and glory of God in every thing around you while taking out the trash in places you do not want.
b) Travel: Ahh, a trip to Maldives, Venice or Seychelles with the girls is a breath of fresh air in spring and that is all you need. The world is a beautiful place to explore and there are many languages, people and other culture to explore. This is the time to go on an adventure and see the beautiful things God has created. Thank God for the internet and websites like TripAdvisor, where you can find the lowest prices of hotels in the country you want to visit and reviews on these hotels by previous visitors. You can also check out Kayak for hotels, car rentals and affordable flights to places around the world. So pack your bags and explore.
In my next blog, I will share more benefits and then take you on the journey of self discovery.